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Is Sexting Normal?
If your partner sends you sleazy, erotic messages, you might think there’s something wrong with them. Perhaps, you’d ask yourself - is sexting normal? According to a recent poll by popular Internet adult toy retailer Adam & Eve, 36 percent of US adults are into sexting today.
Sexting is defined by the survey proponents as the “act of sending sexually explicit messages and photographs via mobile phones. If you divide the total percentage of the Adam & Eve survey by gender, it would be 36 percent men and 38 percent women. If you’re not one of them yet, maybe you could give sexting a try now.
Determine Your Sexting Goals
Before sending texts like “what are you wearing now” or “you look so hot naked”, first determine your sexting goals or objectives. For example, if your messages are getting steamy and heavy already but it’s already 3 a.m, your partner or sextmate might have the wrong impression that you’re still up for a repeat performance. Thus, if you’re tired and sleepy already, you may find it hard to extract yourself from what’s already becoming an unpleasant situation.
Do A Little Pre-Foreplay
Sexting or sending sleazy text messages can actually act like a prelude to the actual penetration, like a pre-foreplay, or foreplay before the foreplay routine. According to sex therapists, you can arouse your partner, or even your Private Sydney Asian Escorts, by being a little explicit in what you say, but make sure you don’t go overboard.
By doing this, you’ll make them wonder what you’re talking about, and it will make them fill in the blanks in their mind too. You could say stuff such as “can’t wait to see you later” or “I got a little surprise for you”, or “guess what color the panties are that I’m going to wear tonight”.
Keep Them Thinking About You
While sexting is all about upping the ante and keeping the erotic juices flowing, the key to effective sexting lies in ensuring continuity, as well as making sure that the person will keep thinking about you more. When sending dirty texts be a little bit ambiguous, while letting them know that you’re thinking about them.
To do this, you could say stuff like “I just saw something that made me think of you”, “I had the sleaziest dream last night”, or “I can’t stop thinking about last night (or last weekend), and I’m ready for round two”.
Just Be Yourself
When sexting, it always pays to just be yourself. This means you shouldn’t say or text something that you’ve never said in real life. If you haven’t said “I wanna rock your world all night baby” but you’ve never ever called your partner “baby”, then maybe you should say something that you’re used to in real life.
And instead of saying “I brought this sex toy, and I’m going to try this with you once I get home”, why not say “I bought something, and I think you’ll drool when you see this tonight”. This should help flood your partner’s mind with a lot of naughty questions.
Don’t Drink And Sext
And if you want to become a certified sexting Casanova or Cyrano de Bergerac, just please don’t drink and sext at the same time. For example, if you sorely miss your ex, but you’re planning to “sext” with a new flame, then if you get really drunk you could send the wrong text messages to your ex.
And if you have little brothers or sisters at home, sex therapists and Asian Escorts Sydney warn that you should secure your sleazy messages and photos from their prying eyes, by deleting every message thread or photo after the conversation has ended. And if you keep sending dirty texts all the time, remember that they could lose their effectiveness over time. Make sure you use them sparingly, so that your partner will never know when they’re going to get them again!
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